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The Cornerstone of Wealth Everyone Gets Wrong!
Why Everyone Gets It Wrong and How You Can Do It Right
đĄDid you know the word "budget" comes from the Old French "bougette," meaning a little bag? Back then, budgeting was literally about managing the coins in your pouchâno spreadsheets required!
Good Morning, sunshine, and it is time to head ToTheUnknown!
Before we dive into the fun stuffâlike how to stack cash like a madman (Iâm referring to you, Mr. Krabs)â
letâs tackle the basics:
đ§±The Cornerstone of Wealth Everyone Gets Wrong
First up, budgetingâaka the financial broccoli no one wants to eat, but everyone needs. Let me guess, youâre thinking:
âBudgeting is just about restricting your spending.â
âItâs for people who canât handle money.â
âI make good money, so why bother?â

Letâs be real for a second:
Budgeting is for everyoneâwhether youâre broke, balling, or somewhere between. Even celebs budgetâyes, even on diamond-encrusted phone cases (looking at you, Kardashians).
So, if youâre out here winging it, itâs time to stop.
The truth?
Budgeting isnât about cutting out all the fun. Itâs about taking controlâtelling your money where to go instead of wondering where it went.
đ”Budgeting 101 â Explained
So, whatâs this so-called âfinancial broccoliâ?
At its core, budgeting is about taking control of your money. Itâs simply a strategy to ensure you spend less than you earn. Thatâs budgeting in a nutshell.
A solid budget keeps you from living paycheck-to-paycheck and sets you on the path to financial freedom. And letâs be realâthatâs exactly why youâre here, right?
If not, hey, Iâm still glad youâre finding it useful. Weâre in this together!
Hereâs a shocking stat: a recent survey showed 60% of Americans donât even have $1,000 saved for an emergency. Yikes. Thatâs a lot, like a lot, lot.
What should you do with this? Panic and go to sleep?
Of course not! Itâs time to take action.
Step 1: Track Every Penny đ°
Before you can fix your habits, you need to understand them. Check out apps like Mint, YNAB, or Wallet (my personal pickânot sponsored, just obsessed) to see where your moneyâs going.
Spoiler: Itâs probably that daily coffee habit or unused gym membership. (Canât relate on that last oneâIâm a proud gym enthusiast!)
Step 2: Set Clear Goals đŻ
Want to save for a trip? Build an emergency fund? Start investing? Write it down. Trust me, having specific goals changes the game.
Step 3: Follow the 50/30/20 Rule đ
Allocate your income to essentials (needs), fun (wants), and future (savings/investments). Like this:
50% for needs (housing, food)
30% for wants (nights out, Netflix)
20% for savings or paying off debt
Personally, Iâve tweaked it:
70% for wants/future (investments)
20% for future (savings)
10% for fun (do what I want)
Usually, the 10% ends up in my investments. I know, I know, youâre sayân I donât have a life.
But hey, I spend quality time with my family!
The bottom line? Without a budget, you're unlikely to make any real progress financially. But once you implement one, thatâs when things start to click.
đĄ Pro Tip: Create a Financial Margin
Okay, picture this:

Youâre reading a book, and itâs packed with words, no space, no room to breathe. Your eyes hurt, and your brain's on overload. That's your finances without a margin.
Now, letâs add some spaceâlike those blank areas around the words in a book. That's your financial margin. It's the cushion of cash left over after youâve paid for the essentials (like rent, food, and Netflixâbecause priorities). Itâs like your moneyâs âpersonal spaceâ where it can chill and relax.
Without a budget, that space doesnât exist. Your finances get all squished up, and you're living life in financial chaos, no room for anything extra. But when you create a margin, you give your money some room to breathe, make a plan, and have a little cushion for those âuh-ohâ moments.
So yeah, think of your budget like the layout of a bookâgive your money some breathing room, and youâll feel a lot less stressed. And trust me, it's way easier to read when thereâs space to spare!
đŁïžCall-to-Action
As always, I like to end things up with something actionous (and no, thatâs still not a real word⊠yet). Maybe Iâm ahead of my time, or maybe Iâm just dumbâwhoâs to say?
Hereâs the deal:
Start small, because big changes happen in tiny steps.
Review Your Spending: Look back at the last three months and find out where your money has been sneaking off to.
Quick Wins: Spot the low-hanging fruitâcancel unused subscriptions, cut back on takeout, or skip those âsplurgeâ purchases that arenât sparking joy.
Budgeting is like training for a marathon (and yes, I might run one this summer). Itâs tough at first, but once youâre in the groove, youâll wonder how you ever lived without it.
The goal isnât perfectionâitâs progress. So start today, even if itâs messy. Your future self will thank you.
Now go out there and budget like a pro! đ

Thatâs all for this week, people! If you have any questions or things youâd like me to change, you can reach me through X or Facebook MMM.
I hope you had an amazing week, and I look forward to seeing you next Sunday!


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